RadarOnline, which first broke the news of Heigl's impending adoption, said it had been in the works for about six months. Heigl and Kelley were married in December 2007.
But the idea of adopting was planted long ago. The "Grey's Anatomy" star told USA Today two years ago that it was "always planned."
"I'm done with the whole idea of having my own children," Heigl told the newspaper.
Sigh. Typical rookie mistake of a prospective adoptive parent, using "my own" as a substitute for "biological." I would have expected a bit better of Katherin Heigl, though -- she has a sister adopted from Korea.
I'm not really the "adoption language" police, despite this post! This is just symptomatic of a particular way of thinking about adoption.
I agree--I think she probably didn't quite mean to word it that way, but....sigh.
ReplyDeleteI am happy to hear that she is adopting a special needs child (at least that is what the article I read mentioned).
I just wanted to mention, that I really like your blog. You seem like a very intelligent and gentle person.
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