So said Maya last night, "You're my only mom," and then there was this pause, hardly detectable, "that I ever met."
Hmmmm. Another mom tells me her daughter sometimes says that, "You're my only mom," and she replies, "Well, you have a birth mom. . . . " I suggested, since this is a repeated thing for her daughter, to ask her why she says that since she knows very well she also has a birth mom.
Did I practice what I preached? Nope. I was, instead, quick to point out that, though she doesn't remember her, she "met" her birth mom when she was born. No response from Maya.
My Taiwanese mother may love me and care about me deeply, but she will never "know" me the way my adoptive mom does.
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